If you have any skills you want to donate to the planning of the wedding, we can use that more than a new set of plates.  Let us know if there's something you would like to help with.

So far, these are the people who are helping and what they're helping with (even if they don't know it yet):

Jenny's Mom and Dad: Rehearsal Dinner BBQ

Carla: Engagement party, flowers and candles and decorating of all kinds, very possibly the cake, business details and negotiating, other stuff that I'm not good at.

Kira: Location scouting, knowing where to buy things.